This is an aspirational list of things I’d like to do or be but am not now. It’s heavily inspired by Derek Sivers and his idea of “directives,” short statements on how to live. I wrote this saying “I am” rather than “I’d like to be,” so that by telling myself I’m this way, I’ll begin to act the part.
- I associate with people I admire. The people in my life expand my horizons and open the world to me.
- Love is the most important part of my life. My primary focus is on relationships.
- I find ways to serve people and improve the world. I am generous with my time and money.
- I have a bias for action. When I recognize something is good, I act on it immediately, or as soon as possible.
- I embrace the strenuous life. I welcome challenges to my mental and physical endurance.
- I take smart risks. If there’s a reasonable advantage, a smart angle or black swan-like ratio, I take the risk.
- I project strength and warmth. I am someone people trust, follow, and want to be around.
- Mastery is my way of life. I have a beginners mind that seeks perfection in everything I do.
- I use writing, reading, storytelling, music, and art to understand and connect with humanity.
- I am a spiritual person. I take time to meditate, reflect, feel gratitude, and to heal myself and others.
- I am completely honest.
- Now is the time that matters most to me. Life is short and precious so I seize the moment.
- I bring solutions, not problems.